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Telling the family…. whenis the right time?
I just got my BFP 2 days ago and i am 4 weeks.
I have had 2 miscarriages in the last 8 months or so. One at 10.5 weeks and one at 9 weeks.
This time my husband doesn’t want to tell anyone until we have had our 12 week scan. The last couple of times we have told close family around 8ish weeks.
I am thinking that i would like to tell my mum earlier as i want the support if anything was to happen again. However if we tell my mum we will have to tell his. He is against this and says we can do this on our own. I don’t know what to do, anybody got any ideas? Do you think we should tell our close family or because of our past problems, should we keep it a secret so that we don’t upset them again. Also it falls to my husband to break the bad news and i know that is horrible, so i do understand his point of view. What do you think?
i had 2 miscarriages before this pregnancy too and it was horrible to have to tell everyone that i lost the baby.. maybe you can compromise with him and just tell your parents and his in the next few weeks then wait til later to tell everyone else. i know i really liked the support of my mom being with me when i had my miscarriages. i ended up telling her when i was about 7 or 8 weeks this time and everythings going great so far. good luck and congrats on the pregnancy!
*~*ItS a GiRl!!*~* | Mar 18, 2010
In my opinion, having a miscarriage isn’t something one can keep inside without it showing on the outside.
If you choose not to tell close family & friends and GOD FORBID something happens, you’ll eventually (or most likely) tell what happened anyway and it will show on your face something isn’t right.
I don’t think you need to tell everyone per se straight away, but your family will always give you support no matter what, so I don’t see why you should keep it from them.
Once DH & I saw a heartbeat at just over 7w, we told our families and very close friends. Work still doesn’t know nor do friendly acquaintances.
Good Luck on what you decide! It’s such a happy time!
Jelly | Mar 18, 2010
Congratulations sweet!
If anyone deserves this its you
I would definatley wait until you have had your 12w scan before telling people, to avoid the heartache and pain if (god forbid) anything was to happen to this little one.
Wishing you a happy & healthy 9 months!!
Lots of love and sticky baby dust from Hollie & Little Leon xx
Leon Due 12th July 2010 ! | Mar 18, 2010
If I had 2 miscarriages in the last 8 months, I wouldn’t tell anybody until you were obviously showing, which would put you out of the danger zone of the two previous pregnancies.
Do you really want to get people excited even with the remote possibility of another miscarriage, just to have to tell them something else?
I’d keep things extremely close to the chest if it was me.
airjarrod | Mar 18, 2010
I think you both should wait until you are 12 weeks and after your ultrasound. Lean on eachother and take it one day at a time
Congrats!
BLB | Mar 18, 2010
I know how u feel the first time i was pregnant i misscarried too and we told everyone early and had. To deal with wat happened?? Are u guys ok??? And at that moment u just want to be left alone… My husband was the same as ur husband the next time round he was afraid aomething would happen again and hlthat we would have to deal wit ppl in our faces again… Anyway i was wanting to tell close family again but bcoz i saw how much my partner didnt want to i stopped asking if we coukd and jst waited till 12 weeks… I know support from ur mother would b great but sometimes they are excited to be grandmothers they accidently let it slip… Maybe refrain from telling anyone coz as u said if u told ur mum u would have to tell his And im sure there woild be other ppl on the list too so yeh it pretty much doesnt stop at ur mumand his
Amanda | Mar 18, 2010
Well hunnie i know what you mean about telling your mum because i know how it feels 2 be pregnant and want 2 tell your mum because you are close and like you said for the support. Im sorry for your losses, when i found out i was pregnant my partner told his sister and brother and i told my mum sister and dad also cousin and auntie then i miscarried at 10 weeks. Its horrible. I think if i was pregnant again i wouldn’t tell anyone and would wait till 12 week because everyone was devastated. I think i’d be like you and want 2 tell my mum though. But i know how your husband feels because sometimes its harder in case you loose the baby and other people know because they don’t act normal sort of thing with you they act a bit sensitive and your husband probably would just want them to be normal. So if i was you i’d just do what your husband says if you really feel the need to tell your mum just tell her but explain to her about your husband didn’t want her to know because of the upset etc in case it happens again and ask her 2 keep it quiet. That way you will have support from your mum. But it depends how you feel in that way about not telling your husband your mum knows which could be worse if he found out. I wish you all the best + good luck xx
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Al | Jan 09, 2010
