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 Second String (2002)
IMDB rating: 5.60
Plot: American football coach Chuck Dichter has worked wonders with the Buffalo Bills, and is even confident to crown his career with a Super Bowl victory, but before the play-offs an oyster food-poisoning wipes out his first team for a month. Dan Heller, an insurance salesman and former college quarterback, who was hired -relactantly, but his wife twisted his arm- just for practice, now has to captain and train a bunch of rookies and old-timers against the hardest adversaries. Dichter decides to sign up triple Super Bowl-winner Tommy Baker in Dan’s place…
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Directors: Lieberman Robert
Actors: Voight Jon,Bellows Gil,Jones Richard T.,Eads George,Barnes Demore,Ditka Mike,Flutie Doug,Johnson Lamont,Miller Van,Neuhaus Ingo,Parke Evan,Shank Roger,Stoetzel Mark,von Esmarch Nick,Comedy,Drama,Sport,
Why is it that in all my relationships when I'm a jerk she loves me, and when I'm nice I'm treated like crap?
Looking back on all my past relationships, I’ve realised a pattern. When I am completely apathetic towards her feelings and needs, she showers me with attention and does anything for me. However, when I am actually there for someone, doing anything and everything to make her happy… I am taken for granted and kept at arms length. Are there any women out there who can just meet me in the middle?!
One of my friends has an explanation called the "cat string theory." In essence he believes that people instinctually want what they can’t have. To wit… if you dangle a sting in front of a cats face, it will jump and swipe for that elusive wonderful thing that is just out of it’s reach… but then when you drop the string on the floor, the cat will only stare at it for a fews seconds before walking away, it’s interest level having completely disappeared. Are women the same way? Shower them with love and attention and they will quickly take you for granted and move on to greater challenges? Play hard to get, keep a wall up, act distant, and they are yours forever? God I hope not, because that is just sad and depressing to think that is what is engrained into our human behavior. However, reflecting on my past girlfriends, and my wake of failed relationships, I can only conclude that the "cat string theory" is right on. Someone please tell me otherwise.
you have to find someone whose not stupid
Joyariffic | Feb 08, 2010
It just seems that way lol
Joe K | Feb 08, 2010
Its true most women like a guy who treats them like crap & don’t like the the nice guy, even though they tell you differently.
choliscott | Feb 08, 2010
Women do not like a guy they can push around so to speak, Be dominate and loving its possible and goodluck
Eric | Feb 08, 2010
Yeah that sucks. unfortunately it’s how most women are. They either like to be abused by you, or abuse you. Hopefully though you’ll find someone who is aware enough of themselves not to do that. Just hang in there.
Kye | Feb 08, 2010
well dont ask a question then say please tell me otherwise,
if you dont like the truth, dont ask the question..
your cat with a string theory hits a mark. but its not altogether accurate.
girls like when guys are mean and rude and uncaring blah blah blah, because it presents a challenge.
and nobody wants to be in a relationship that is boring.
girls often take for granted the guy who is caring and sweet, because thats what girlfriends are for.
i’m not saying be a complete dick to every girl you meet, but dont make it too easy for them to get what they want. be interested but not so much like "oh your favorite colour is green? like forrest or lime?"
also you dont want to be the shoulder they cry on. once again, thats what girlfriends are for. which is not to say dont be completely uncaring.. just dont be the sob, it makes alot of girls uncomfortable.
cause as much as guys love to think that girls are always an open book and a gossip about 99% of their lives, its totally untrue.
more girls hide their feelings than guys do.
hope i helped
Robyn | Feb 08, 2010
For them to meet you in the middle, you have to be in the middle. Don’t ignore them and treat them like crap but don’t fawn over them and suffocate them. It’s easy for women to take men for granted when they feel like they can push them around and watch them jump when they say so. Just… be there and be nice and they will come and meet you half way.
Missa | Feb 08, 2010
yea i have to say that women like bad boys and know that if they cant have you makes them want you more but not all are like that there are a lot more women out there that like nice down to earth men but trust me you will never be happy unless they are happy so yeah if there happy with you then you should be happy with them
answer mine plz
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Mr. john | Feb 08, 2010
Cat theory, I like it very true. It’s like when your married you have more woman coming on to you than when your single. If your dumb enough to leave your wife they will dump you to the curb. It’s like they want to see if they are more appealing to you than your wife. Once they she they got you they’re done with you. There was a song by Bill Hicks check out the lyric under search chicks dig jerks lyrics.
james a | Feb 08, 2010